At least 66% of US households own a pet. That’s 2 out of every 3 homes! Now it doesn’t differentiate which pet is in each household but for the sake of this article, I’ll be focusing on cats and dogs, as they are the clear majority in pet ownership. So why are pets so popular? Unsurprisingly, they offer companionship! We have transitioned from a society in which animals were used for protection, hunting, transportation, etc. to now incorporating pets into our family dynamic. Often times, we view and treat our pets as our own children. As a dog dad myself, I can vouch that Maui (my goldendoodle) is indeed my child. So, what led to this change in how we view our pets? I think as our society advances so do the many unknown consequences. New technology has made things easy and more efficient for humans but at what cost. The capitalistic society in the United States has led Americans to rarely be content. Which in moderation can increase motivation but often leads to extraneous pressure and stress. Compound that with the ever-available social media and a person finds themselves being force fed societal standards of life progress and where one may fall short. It’s easier than ever to talk to others via cell phone or facetime, drive or fly to visit someone, or seek out social activities. Yet, we often find ourselves preferring solitude. There is a mental health crisis currently in this country! Cue our pets. A dog or cat which completely relies on us for sustenance. We are their everything. In a world full of selfishness, empty promises, high divorce rates, and insincerity, our pets are our saving grace. They center us and offer hope that as humans we can be better. They lead by example, offering unconditional love and always being there when we need them most. We are the highlight of their day and vice versa. They are sad to see us leave and uber excited to see us return home. Dogs offer unquestioned loyalty and love. Something nearly impossible to experience at the human level. Regardless of your current mood or energy, dogs love you all the same. For me it’s the reliability and love I feel when I’m with my Maui girl. It gives me joy to see her happy, similar to the feeling I’m sure parents experience with their children. Dogs provide a healthy dopamine rush and a true connection in a world where such a feeling is scarce. Offering a judgment free environment and simply love you for you. They have many talents and can be utilized for several tasks including acting as service animals, combatting PTSD or other mental health issues, K9 unit, hunting, protection, or simply a family pet. In all of these scenarios though, the one thing that remains unquestioned is the bond built between a dog and its owner. My personal experience with Maui is that she quickly became my best friend! I’ve been through many tough times since I’ve had her and I’m happy to say she’s never faltered once. A true ride or die! The consistency and reliability of knowing she’s excited to see me and loves me no matter what, gives me an immense feeling of joy. I think the level of connection between a dog and their owner becomes more appreciated when you realize how rare such a feeling truly is. For those of you with pets, think about the pivotal role they play in your life. And remember their life is short, so don’t take them for granted. Give your pet a hug and extra loving’s today because they never take a day off, and only ask for your time and love in return. Thank you for reading!
